Every joining of a man and woman in holy matrimony should be a show of God’s desire for his children. Marriage is a union arranged by God.
Little things go far in congealing the relationship between husband and wife. Putting these things in practice signifies your dedication to building a happy marriage for you and partner.
- Let go of comparison
Comparing your relationship with any other relationship will do more harm and good. Comparison can cripple a marriage. The grass isn’t always greener on the other side or at your neighbours. Do not let what a certain couple show the world be the benchmark for measuring the success in yours. Every marriage is different. Let satisfaction be your new response to everything happening in your relationship.
- Sometimes you will fight
Sometimes you are pushed to the wall by your significant other but that just says one thing; you wouldn’t care so much, if they didn’t mean so much to you. Nevertheless, it is important to not do something you can’t take back and a good way to handle the situation, no matter what it is, is to decide to never go to bed staying mad at your partner.
- Kiss more than you whine
If the number of times you nag or complain to your lover surpasses the amount of time you kiss them then you need a new direction in handling things in your home. Always kiss your lover, it will improve the connection between you too and that’s a sure way to a happy home.
- Give time to your partner
Have fun, enjoy new experiences together. Marriage is not a prison yard, take your partner out at least once a month. If you don’t nurture your marriage it dies. If there’s no fun in being together then it is the beginning of an endless circle of cheating and longing any fun thing outside of your marriage. A good tip is to have fun, it is very important to have fun and flirt with your partner.
- Learn your partner’s personality
Learn what your partner’s love language is and speak to them in that language. Everyone has a different love language, some people like to be touched, some like to be surprised. It will go a long way in planting happiness in your home.
Author: Gesture Chidhanguro