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5 ways to discourage your husband from having a side chick

February 3, 2017 10:19 am

It’s easy to have a happy wedding, but the greatest challenge is being happy in your marriage. Cheating is one of the major causes of unhappy and broken marriages. So how do you stop the cheating?

Although it’s not always the husband who is the cheating partner, Makamba Online takes a light-hearted look at five ways wives can discourage their husbands from ever thinking of cheating.

1. Be his best friend

Aside from marriage, the longest relationships people have, are friendships. Friendships are easy and beneficial and make people feel like they truly have a companion for life. If you are his best friend and his wife, he will put you on two pedestals and will never want to hurt you in any way, including cheating.

2. Don’t stand for cheating

Sometimes, even when you do everything right, your husband may just be a serial cheater who loves having side chicks. If this is the case, let him know you won’t stand for it. Accepting his side chicks will only encourage him to keep collecting them. So refuse to be treated that way and let him know you want and deserve a faithful husband.

3. Be yourself all the time

No matter how crazy or unstable you think you are, you will always find someone who loves the real you. If you pretend to be who you are not then change drastically after you are married, your husband will begin to rethink his choice and look out for another woman who is like who he thought you were.

4. Don’t be a nagger

If your husband gets on your nerves or does things you don’t like, find effective ways to tell him and stop the problem. If you keep screaming and nagging 24/7, it will become routine and he will get used to your antics and seek comfort in someone who doesn’t nag him all the time.

5. Continue to be attractive

In relationships, we tend to get comfortable because we have found someone and marriage is no different. Your small ‘forming’ may be part of why he fell in love with you and if you become too relaxed and uninterested about looking good for him, he will search outside for that type.

Ladies, let us have your thoughts? Are you to blame for a man’s cheating, sometimes, or not at all? Share your thoughts @MakambaOnline.

Author: Gesture Chidhanguro

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